Real Help For Real Relationships
Couples Therapy & Individual Counselling in British Columbia
I’m Fern, and I provide online marriage counselling, couples therapy, and relationship support to individuals and couples of all backgrounds. I work with people from across British Columbia: from the banks of the Muskwa River near Fort Nelson in the north, to the sunbaked hills of Osoyoos in the south, to the wild coastlines of Tofino, and the snow-capped peaks around Fernie in the east. I’m proud to support clients from rural towns, remote communities, island villages, and cities throughout BC — including Vancouver, Victoria, Burnaby, Kelowna, Kamloops, Nanaimo, Prince George, Surrey, Abbotsford, Chilliwack, Langley, Maple Ridge, Coquitlam, Port Coquitlam, Delta, Vernon, West Kelowna, Campbell River, Cranbrook, Dawson Creek, Fort St. John, Salmon Arm, Nelson, Trail, Castlegar, Powell River, Squamish, Sechelt, Penticton, Hope, Williams Lake, Smithers, Kimberley, Lillooet, Ashcroft, Logan Lake, Sicamous, Revelstoke, Kitimat, Creston, Golden, Ucluelet, Port Alberni, Parksville, Ladysmith, Qualicum Beach, Lake Cowichan, 100 Mile House, Burns Lake, Houston, Princeton, Sparwood, Elkford, Chetwynd, and countless communities in between.
Online Therapy with Expertise You Can Trust
Get the support your relationship deserves.
With over 10 years of counselling experience and advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Fern offers professional, confidential help — conveniently online, from anywhere in BC.
Couples Therapy
- Strengthen your emotional connection, rebuild trust after hurt or betrayal, and restore closeness in your relationship
- Break out of painful conflict cycles, navigate gridlock and repetitive arguments with more empathy and less reactivity
- Build stronger communication skills, manage relationship stress and emotional overwhelm, and start feeling like a team again
Individual Counselling
- Learn to manage stress, anxiety, and depression, navigate life’s changes, and grow toward greater clarity and resilience.
- Work through emotional struggles without any judgment or pressure
- Get support for your marriage, even if your partner isn’t ready to join you (yet)
Warm & Practical Support for You & Your Relationship
“Fern helped us feel heard, understood, and hopeful again — our relationship feels stronger.”
Hi, I’m Fern – a down-to-earth, client-centered counsellor offering online marriage counselling, couples therapy, and relationship support across British Columbia. Whether you’re struggling with your relationship, thinking about separation or divorce, facing family conflict, or just needing personal support — I’m here to listen with warmth, kindness, and compassion, without judgment or pressure.
Whether you live in a major city like Vancouver, Victoria, Kelowna, Kamloops, and Cranbrook or a small rural town somewhere in between, I’ll meet you right where you are. Together, we’ll explore new ways to turn your challenges into opportunities, and bring more peace, clarity, and joy into your daily life.
A Different Kind of Couples Therapy
When couples reach out for help, it’s often because they still care deeply — but something is getting in the way of feeling close, safe, and truly understood. Even when there’s love, couples can get stuck in painful patterns that leave them feeling distant, disconnected, or constantly miscommunicating.
As a trained online couples therapist, I use Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method — two of the most research-supported, effective approaches in the field of relationship therapy. These methods are especially helpful for couples experiencing conflict, emotional disconnection, or trust issues.
EFT helps you get to the heart of what’s happening between you — not by digging up every past mistake, but by identifying the recurring cycles that keep pulling you apart. When you can recognize those patterns together, you can start to change them — and begin feeling closer, safer, and more supported in your relationship.
The Gottman Method brings in practical, evidence-based tools you can use right away: better communication strategies, ways to repair after conflict, and small, everyday habits that strengthen your friendship, intimacy, and trust. It’s about building a relationship that feels strong and resilient — not perfect, but real, lasting, and emotionally secure.
What I offer goes deeper than surface advice — it’s real, practical help for your real relationship.
This is down-to-earth, trauma-informed couples counselling, focused on helping you feel more connected — without judgment, pressure, or blame.
If you’re looking for online couples therapy in British Columbia that actually helps you make sense of what’s going wrong and rebuild what’s been lost, I’m here to help.
Individual Counselling With a Twist
Life can feel overwhelming, and sometimes it’s hard to name exactly why. Maybe you’re navigating relationship stress, anxiety, past trauma, or just trying to feel more like yourself again.
I offer individual counselling with a relationship focus, grounded in compassion and backed by evidence-based methods like Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT). This trauma-informed approach helps you understand your emotional patterns, heal from what’s holding you back, and start showing up more fully — in your relationships and in your life.
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